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5-⭐ Wifey, with references

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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Education
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Michigan, Farmington Hills
Country
United States
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
Definition of a Five-Star Wifey:

1. A five-star wifey is not, by any means, a designation of "perfection." Instead, it implies a dedicated and intentional willingness to serve in every capacity as a wife that is a true source of sakinah for her husband in this dunya, towards achieving Allah's swt pleasure in the akhira.

2. A five-star wifey doesn't necessarily cook the bombest meals, but she tries, and she's not half bad most of the time!

3. A five-star wifey knows enough Islam to practice a life in pursuit of Allah's love, but seeks a man either more knowledgeable, more practicing, or (ideally) both to lead her in implementing the Qur'an and Sunnah as guidance for this dunya.

4. A five-star wifey is still human, and, therefore, may (or may not) struggle with patience, temperament management, focus, discipline, car maintenance, weight loss and healthy eating. However, this does not mean she's not a five-star wifey. It just means her five-star hubby needs to be patient and disciplined enough to be her guide and anchor.

5. A five-star wifey enjoys all things halal in terms of fun and entertainment and does not allow cultural misconceptions and baseless judgements to limit her engagement with whatever Islam deems halal.

NOTE: I'm divorced and may be unable to have children. I'm open to joining a family that already has one or more children and would prefer a husband with full custody, over shared, if possible.

May Allah swt open our hearts to what is best, ameen!

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What I Am Looking For
3 Steps to Approach a Five-Star Wifey:

Step 1: Always start with Bismillah and clarify your intentions.
"Actions are according to intentions, and everyone will get what was intended. Whoever migrates with an intention for Allah and His messenger, the migration will be for the sake of Allah and his Messenger. And whoever migrates for worldly gain or to marry a woman, then his migration will be for the sake of whatever he migrated for."

Step 2: Send a greeting appropriate for engaging in conversation with another Muslim.
“You will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another. Shall I not tell you about something which, if you do it, you will love one another? Spread salam amongst yourselves.”

Step 3: Ask questions specifically about what is important to you before chatting about unimportant things.
I'm not here to date or chat or pass the time. Ask me about your deal breakers up front, then we can involve my parents before we spend any more time getting to know one another's personalities, in sha Allah.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
American
Country of Origin
Bangladesh
Willing to Relocate?
Nationally
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Unsure
Do I have children?
No
My Living Arrangements?
I Live With Family
Country
United States
County/State
Michigan, Farmington Hills
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.75m (5' 9")
My Build
Large
My Hair Colour
Other
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Masters degree
Subject I Studied
Education
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
English
Work
My Profession
Education
My Job Title
Editor
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always